What school will he go to. Parents ask: which school do we belong to by registration and which one will the child go to study? What to look for when choosing a school

The best schools in Moscow have been repeatedly recognized by such educational institutions as Lyceum No. 1535, SUNTS MGU, school No. 179 MIOO, "Fifty-seventh School", Lyceum "Second School" and Gymnasium No. 1543. Lyceum No. 1580 at the Moscow State Technical University im. Bauman, Lyceum No. 1502 at MPEI, gymnasium No. 1518 and gymnasium No. 1514.

Popular today are secondary special schools that combine the teaching of general education and special subjects.

Gymnasiums and lyceums in Moscow differ from standard schools in their training programs, extended multidisciplinary additional education, degree teachers and learning a second foreign language. In addition, these educational institutions have a stricter discipline, their own symbols, modern equipment and reserve teaching staff. Approximately 75% of excellent students become high school students in Moscow lyceums and gymnasiums.

How to choose a good school in Moscow

When choosing a school, first of all, you should find out everything about the teaching staff and curriculum- amount of homework maximum amount extracurricular activities, saturation of the program. You also need to focus on the child's abilities and, depending on them, choose a school with a linguistic, mathematical, sports or other appropriate bias. In addition, when choosing a school for a child, it is necessary to visit the chosen institution in order to get acquainted with its atmosphere and discipline.

Today, there are many specialized schools for gifted children, where their abilities will be developed to the fullest.

It will not be superfluous to communicate with teachers and the director, as well as obtaining data on the participation of the school in olympiads and competitions, its awards and achievements. A very important factor is the location of the school - the child should easily get to it, and it should be convenient for parents to take and pick up the student if necessary. When choosing between a private and public school, it should be remembered that in each of them there are differences between the amount of financial injections and payment methods. When enrolling in a private school, you need to find out in advance the amount of the monthly payment with additional payments inclusive. A public school is usually much cheaper, but it is still desirable to clarify the approximate costs.

Also in early childhood it is from school that a child begins to get acquainted with science, his own interests in life, his first friends and society as a whole. The child is constantly learning new things, developing it social roles and relationships, the psyche is formed. The school plays a much greater role in a person's life, acting not only as an educational institution where they conduct lessons and take exams. Therefore, it is very important to make the right choice of school for your child at the very beginning, and if necessary, be sure to change.

Where in Moscow to find the best school?

Now look for the right one educational institution it is much easier and more convenient for a child, and for a detailed and high-quality search, it is enough to use Schools.mel.fm. This is a young, convenient, effective and developing portal for parents and their children, created by the popular edition "Mel". The portal contains detailed information about secondary educational institutions in Moscow, it is constantly updated with fresh and useful information.

How to use the site?

Schools can be searched by addresses, numbers, districts of Moscow and metro stations. For a thorough selection, use the advanced search: to do this, in the middle of the main page, click on the "Find School" button on the right or select the "Advanced Search" link below it.

A map of Moscow with schools marked on it will open in front of you. Going down, on the right you will find a general list of schools, and on the left - a detailed filter to search for specific schools.

Advanced search can be performed by one or several criteria at once. It is presented as follows:

First, you can choose the class your child is going to go to. If the child is still small, but in the future you are planning his education in a particular school, then you can find out if there is Kindergarten. Studying in kindergarten, the child gradually gets used to the atmosphere and requirements of a particular educational institution, and then it will be easier for him to adapt to school when the time will come.
Next, you can select the type of school by checking the box next to one of the options presented: schools and education centers, lyceums, correctional, gymnasiums, cadets.
Next, you can check if the school has high results in the GIA and the Unified State Examination, as well as victories in olympiads and competitions in certain subjects. Based on this information, one can form a certain opinion about the prestige of the school, the professionalism of teaching and its teachers.

Each school has an average grade. All schools can be sorted by average grade, education, teachers, atmosphere and infrastructure and compared with each other. The site also contains useful articles from the Mel publication on pressing school issues - they can be useful to many parents.

With the help of this portal, it has become much easier to decide on a suitable educational institution for your child! The necessary minimum information about any school can be found on the portal, and then you can chat live with the directors and teachers of the institutions you are interested in.

The question of which school to send the child to, sooner or later, will face every parent. Your yesterday's baby has grown up and is about to go to school? Of course, all parents dream and do everything possible to ensure that their child is educated in the best school. However, few parents can clearly answer such a simple question as what is a good school in their understanding. This will be discussed in this article. Some of the parents believe that a good school is a school of the old Soviet "hardening", similar to the one in which they themselves once studied.

For other parents, the model of a good school will be a prestigious expensive school, in which the children of parents belonging to the so-called " high society". Such a school should be on the first lines of any ratings, the school building must certainly have extremely expensive repairs, the most modern study guides, equipping classrooms.

For third parents, a good school is associated with security, a swimming pool, several foreign languages, classes with a small number of children, an individual approach to each of the students, however, at the same time, with iron discipline. All teachers teaching in such a school must be the best and highly qualified.

For simple logical reasons, some ideas of a good school almost completely exclude others. And what is ideal for one child will be completely unacceptable for another. So, for example, if your kid is rather shy and quiet, a school with a cozy homely atmosphere is just perfect for him. And if, on the contrary, he needs strict discipline, such a school will relax the child, which will lead to a decrease in academic performance or even a loss of interest in the educational process.

So, how can parents make a choice and find really good school for their future first grader? After all, the choice of a school for a child is perhaps the most important choice. Of course, for this you will have to put in a lot of effort. However, this process should not be neglected - after all, your child will have to study for a long eleven years at the school of your choice. And it is the school that largely determines the future of the child and what kind of person he will become.

Indeed, despite all the efforts of the family, the school environment largely determines the formation of the child's character, his worldview and life values. School friends will also have a significant impact on your child and will play an important role in his life for a very long time. If you live in a socially disadvantaged area, try to learn at least a little about the families of your future classmates. Children are very suggestible and easily succumb to other people's influence, so you need to do your best to protect him from negative influences.

However, in no case do not explain your decision to the child - due to his age, he will not yet be able to correctly interpret the motives for your decision. And, as a result, he may have a false sense of his exclusivity and mythical superiority over other peers. And such a line of behavior of the child will sooner or later lead to a complication of relations with classmates, as a result of which he may lose the desire to attend classes.

Factors influencing school choice

There is a certain algorithm of actions that parents must follow when choosing a school for their child. Remember that only consistency and slowness will help you make a really right choice, which you will not have to regret later. Remember that a transfer to another school is always a severe emotional stress for a child.

The first thing you need to do is collect information about all the schools within the radius of your home that you consider acceptable. Remember that very soon your baby will grow up and begin to get to school and back on his own. Once you know about the availability of all schools, start collecting more detailed information about each of them individually. Your acquaintances, friends, neighbors, reviews from the Internet can serve as a source of information.

However, be sure to remember that all the information you have collected is only good for making a first impression, since any information is subjective, even official. For example, many schools publicly declare their cooperation with some universities. You should not rely on this factor when choosing a school - after all, by the time your first-grader graduates from school, everything can change more than once. And the information that you get from other parents is often based on their personal preferences or, on the contrary, dislikes. That is why very carefully evaluate all the information received, filtering out the information you do not need.

When choosing a school for their child, many parents use the data of various specialized print publications, which regularly publish ratings of various schools on their pages. As a rule, such publications publish ratings of schools located in large metropolitan areas. At first glance, everything is extremely simple and clear. However, there are certain tricks here:

Firstly, not all schools submit their data to such publications for a variety of reasons: some educational institutions save their money, while others do not experience shortages in students without this measure.
Secondly, these ratings are often compiled according to the most formal criteria - living conditions, technical equipment of classes.
The entire teaching staff is often also evaluated only on general items, such as experience, academic degree.

You should also not pay special attention to such indicators as the victories of students of any school at various olympiads, or the special merits of any individual teachers. After all, this does not at all guarantee that all students of this school are exceptionally gifted and talented children, and teachers are brilliant.

When choosing a school, you need to focus primarily on the capabilities and needs of your child. The specialization of the school must necessarily correspond to the inclinations and abilities of the child. So, for example, a baby who has been deftly managing numbers since the age of three will feel much more comfortable in a school with a mathematical bias. And a child who is fond of sports will be in his environment at a school with a sports bias.

Many parents, in pursuit of fashion, try to send their child to schools with a language bias and the study of several languages. However, these schools are not ideal for all children. Nowadays, a huge number of children have a whole range of speech therapy problems. Violation of the pronunciation of a certain group of sounds, small vocabulary and other speech difficulties. If your child is one of them, a linguistic school can significantly worsen the situation.

Also a very important factor is how many people children will study in one class. So, for example, if your child belongs to the so-called "home" children who have not attended kindergarten and do not know how to contact the children's team, a small class with a small number of children will become much more acceptable for him. If there are no problems with social adaptation, he will surely like it in a large and noisy company of classmates.

Remember that if your priority when choosing a school is an individual approach to your child, you should give preference to small classes. After all, the most ideal teacher will not be able to devote enough time individually for each student if there are more than 10 children in the class. However, such small classes often frighten parents, who at one time studied in the environment of 20 - 3 classmates, with their unusualness and unusualness.

The next thing parents need to pay close attention to is that teaching load given to children in the selected school. Do you remember the well-known song “For some reason, more and more of us began to be loaded ... Today, at school, the first grade is like an institute”? So, this is not an exaggeration at all, and in fact, often the load at school exceeds the maximum allowable established by WHO standards by five or even six times. For example, children aged 7 should not spend more than one hour a day doing homework. And first-graders studying in elite prestigious schools often spend at least 4-5 hours in a row every day at the lessons.

That is why studying in such schools, which put a tremendous burden on the child's body, is strictly contraindicated for children who are in poor health, often get sick for a long time. Even an absolutely healthy children's body often finds it difficult to cope with such loads, not to mention weakened children. If your little one has any chronic illness, consider finding a school with the least stress for him.

Do not be upset and assume that after graduation from school it will be difficult for a child to enter a prestigious university. Firstly, graduates of completely ordinary schools often become happy first-year students. And besides, your baby may well get stronger so that he can learn in prestigious school with an enhanced curriculum.

If your family belongs to an average family with an average material income, paying for schooling will become an important issue for you. So, while public schools are considered free, private school education often costs a very large amount. At the same time, do not forget that paid training does not always guarantee its high quality. Often the ordinary state average comprehensive school gives a much higher quality of learning.

However, in a public school, parents will still have to part with various amounts of money quite regularly. The money is collected for school needs, food or protection. In a month, this amount can vary from 300 rubles to a certain amount. As a rule, this amount is determined at parent meetings. parent committee consisting of several parents who are ready to devote a significant amount of time to public school life.

As mentioned a little earlier, parents should pay special attention to the location of the school. The best option, of course, would be a school that is as close to home as possible. After all, the longer the child spends on the road to school and back, the less time he will have for a good rest. In addition, carefully consider and track the route to school - the presence of major highways, ground transport, the location of ground and underground passages. Remember that the safety of the child should be at the forefront of your choice and, even more so, take precedence over your personal ambitions.

First encounter with the school

Once, based on the information you received, you have identified for yourself several schools that, in your opinion, meet your requirements as closely as possible, you need to visit each of them. A personal visit to a school often provides much more complete information about a given educational institution than all other sources of information combined. Be sure to talk with the director, and with the head teacher, and with the prospective teacher of your school. There you can also talk with the parents of students who have been studying at this school for more than a year and know everything about it thoroughly.

It is worth talking about the future teacher of your child separately. As a rule, parents with a certain experience advise with special care not to choose the school itself, but the teacher. After all, it is from the teacher that he will introduce the child into a new world for him so far - the world of school life, spends a huge amount of time with him. And it is the first teacher that largely determines whether the child will study with pleasure, or will try to avoid classes in every possible way.

Be sure to pay attention to the temperament of the teacher. An observant person will definitely note the manner of communication, intonation, and gestures of the teacher. Keep in mind that the more similar the temperaments of your child and teacher, the more productive your child's learning process will be. If your baby has an active temperament, he will successfully perceive information in the form in which it is presented by the teacher. But in the event that the baby is slow enough, then his perception of the teacher’s stormy speech with active gestures can be greatly hampered.

It is also desirable to pay attention to the school itself - the state of the classrooms, the presence of a gym, computer classes, groups extended day, swimming pools and more. Remember that many schools prefer not to spend money on equipping their own gyms, but rent premises in sports complexes. Such classes in terms of their productivity are in no way inferior to classes held in their own gym.

It is also necessary to carefully inspect the school grounds. Pay attention to the condition of playgrounds, if any, the presence of benches, fences. Inspect the area very carefully, paying attention to whether used syringes are lying around. Their presence almost always, unfortunately, indicates that drug addiction is flourishing in this school.

For first-graders, an important aspect should be the issue of the school canteen. Unfortunately, many schools do not have their own canteens, and catering at the school is limited only by the presence of a buffet in it. You yourself understand that a bun or a chocolate bar eaten dry will not be able to replace a full meal. Constant violation of the normal diet sooner or later will inevitably lead to the development of various diseases of the gastrointestinal tract in the child. The most ideal option would be to have the opportunity to taste the food that is prepared in the school cafeteria to see for yourself how well your child will eat.

Be sure to find out how many school days per week at the school you want to send your child to. Experienced child psychologists and pediatricians unanimously argue that a five-day training is the most optimal for a child. With a "five day" your child will have enough time to good rest from the educational process.

If the issue of organizing the time of the child after the end of the lessons is relevant for you, you need to pay attention to the following few points. First, be sure to find out if the school has an after-school group. If there is such a group, find out how the daily routine is organized in it - is there hot meals, do children sleep during the day. Be sure to find out until what time the after-school group is open.

It would also be useful to ask if the school itself has any extra classes and mugs. If the child has the opportunity to attend the selected circle on the school grounds, this will help him save some time that would otherwise be spent on the road to the section. And this, in turn, again means that your crumbs will have more time to relax.

A very important point characterizing the prestige of the school is security. However, you can not calm down, just seeing a man in the form of a guard. Unfortunately, often, despite the presence of security guards, alarms and surveillance cameras, security at the school is only nominal. No one monitors who picks up the kids after school and whether they take them at all. And in other schools, a simple watchman grandmother is more vigilant for the safety of children than a hen - a hen for her chickens. Be sure to watch how the children go home after the end of classes - this can tell you a lot and clarify questions that interest you.

And the last thing you need to pay attention to is what kind of curriculum the classes are taught in your school. Many parents believe that classes in all schools are conducted according to the same program, but in fact this is not at all the case. To date, there are several state training programs officially approved by the Ministry of Education. For more information about each of them, please contact the school principal.

School enrollment documents

Once you have finally chosen the best school for your child, your next step should be to apply to the school. Be sure to check with the principal or head teacher of the school what documents are required for admission to the school. After all, if you miss at least something, your child will not be enrolled in the selected school until all the necessary documents for admission to the school are provided.

Each school has its own documents for enrolling in a school, however, there are a number of documents that must be attached to the application for enrolling a child in secondary educational institution. Below is an example list:

Application from one of the parents or other legal representatives of the interests of the child, such as guardians.
A photocopy of the child's birth certificate.
Medical report on the state of health of the child. About the medical commission will be written a little later.
A photocopy of the passport of the parent or guardian applying for the admission of the child to the school.
A photocopy of the child's medical policy.
In the event that the child has a non-resident residence permit, documents for enrolling in a school also include a photocopy of registration for temporary residence in the city in which the selected school is located.
For foreign citizens and stateless persons, it is also necessary to make a photocopy of a document confirming the legal presence of a citizen on the territory of the Russian Federation.

Remember that when submitting documents for registration to the school, in addition to photocopies, you will need to bring the originals with you. In the same case, if for some reason you cannot submit any of the above documents, the issue of enrolling a child will be decided on an individual basis.

When do I need to apply to the school?

Another very common question that worries a huge number of parents is when to apply to the school. In this situation, it is almost impossible to unambiguously answer this question. Much depends on the popularity and prestige of the school. The more people who want to attend this educational institution, the sooner, as a rule, the acceptance of documents begins.

Until now, in order to apply on the first day of accepting applications, parents are forced to queue near the school early in the morning, or even at night. Of course, such phenomena are not so common, but parents need to take care of finding out when the acceptance of documents begins in the school of your choice.

Basically, this time is from March to August. In any case, the sooner you submit documents to the school you are interested in, the more time you will have for direct preparation for the school, and not for various paperwork.

Medical Commission

As already mentioned, the medical commission before the school is simply necessary condition for the admission of a child to a general educational children's institution. For each child, medical workers start a special card of the established form, which fully reflects the state of health of the child, all medical and preventive measures for the baby, such as vaccinations, physical therapy, rest of the child in a sanatorium and other activities.

All data and anamnesis of a child who enters the first grade of the school are filled in the passport part of the medical record in accordance with the form No. 112, the established sample. In addition to the passport part, this medical record contains pages that contain data on the examination of the child by various narrow specialists. These pages must be completed before the child enters school.

The pre-school health checkup includes examining the child by the following specialists:

The doctor is an otolaryngologist. This specialist will determine whether or not the child has problems with hearing or nasopharynx.
An ophthalmologist will determine the condition of the organs of the visual system.
A neuropathologist will assess the condition nervous system child, will help determine the optimal level of stress that is acceptable for his nervous system.
The surgeon examines the child for the presence of pathology of the musculoskeletal system.
The pediatrician will give a final conclusion on the child's health status, and in addition will refer the child to the necessary laboratory tests.

Any child before entering school must undergo a certain number of laboratory tests, such as:

General blood analysis. Based on the results of this analysis, the doctor can assess the general condition of the child, the presence or absence of various complications, such as iron deficiency anemia or any inflammatory process in the body.
General urine analysis. Its results will allow to evaluate the work of the child's genitourinary system, the state of his kidneys.
Examination of feces for the presence of worm eggs.
Smears on the eggs of worms. The smear is done three days in a row. Why doctors insist on both smears and fecal analysis remains a mystery, but it is still necessary to take them.
A swab from the throat of a child for pathogenic flora.
Vaccinations. Be sure to in advance, about six months before the planned medical commission, be sure to ask your attending physician - pediatrician about whether all the vaccinations are appropriate for his age. If there are not enough vaccinations, they should be done in advance in order to avoid various misunderstandings during the medical examination.

Remember that the passage of the commission may take more than one or two days. That is why you should not postpone its passage to the very last moment, and then frantically run around various offices, trying to meet the deadline. This will tire both you and the child, and besides, you run the risk of significantly fraying your nerves.

Sometimes parents prefer not to go through a medical examination on their own, but to buy a ready-made medical report. Unfortunately, in recent years there are a huge number of dishonest companies offering such a service. Of course, the offer to buy a medical certificate at an affordable price and get rid of the need to run around the doctor's offices. However, remember that such a medical report often turns out to be fake, and as a result, you still cannot avoid going to the doctors.

Every year more and more new schools open in Russia. Some of them are located in places remote from future students. Quite often, parents choose educational institutions not according to their place of residence, but according to various characteristics - rating, teachers, school programs conditions of stay of children in the institution. It's quite normal. But often parents are faced with refusals to accept a child in a school that is not registered. Such situations are on the rise. They bring a lot of trouble to both the parents of the future student and the directors. Today we will figure out how to get into a school without registration. Is it even possible to bring the idea to life? And if there is such a right, how best to implement it? Every parent should be aware of what he is allowed to do regarding the education of minors.

About secondary education

Is it possible to get into a school without registration? To answer this question, you will have to pay attention to the current legislation of the Russian Federation.

Let's start with the fact that secondary education in Russia is compulsory. Every citizen of the Russian Federation must graduate from school. And they have no right to refuse admission to an educational institution according to the law "On Education".

It follows that parents can apply to any school with a corresponding request to accept their child in the first grade (and not only). But in Russia, when submitting a request not for registration, refusals often follow. How legitimate is this?

Constitution of the Russian Federation

Everything is not as simple as it seems. The Constitution of the Russian Federation also has some indications regarding the acquisition of secondary education.

This set of laws prescribes free and affordable education in the country. Accordingly, parents have the right to apply for admission of the child to educational institutions. But how to get into a school without registration?

Legality of refusals

To begin with, we will find out whether they can refuse to enroll in educational institutions by law. Based on the foregoing, the conclusion follows that the director is obliged to accept everyone who wants to go to school. And he can't refuse. After all, this is a violation of constitutional rights.

Of course, there are not enough places for everyone. And so refusals are sometimes logical. If there are no places, then they will not be able to accept the child in school according to the law.

Despite this, under certain circumstances, children have the right not to be enrolled in educational institutions if the parents applied to an institution not at the place of registration. When is this possible? And on what grounds?

Law changes

Since 2012, there have been certain amendments to the Law "On Education". They are the reason for refusals to enroll in educational institutions. And everything will happen according to the law.

The thing is that the current legislation assigns to children applying to a school by registration the priority right to enroll. This means that first places for schoolchildren are distributed according to their place of residence. And if after that they have not ended, then the director is obliged to accept people who are not registered.

About priority

How to get to school without registration? If you persevere, then the solution of the task will not cause any problems.

As we have already found out, citizens can apply to any educational institution with a request to enroll a child in a particular class. They can refuse this service, but only under certain circumstances.

First, places are distributed among children living at addresses associated with the educational institution. In order of priority, according to the principle "who applied first". After that, the rest of the places are distributed among the children who are not registered. The principle is the same: whoever applied earlier will get a place in the school. Every parent should remember this. An application for enrolling a child in an educational institution should be submitted as early as possible.

Private schools

And can they refuse by law to accept children in private educational institutions? If the school is not municipal, then registration during the consideration of requests for enrollment of students does not play any role. And you can not refuse this service.

By law, this is possible only when there are no places left for a particular child in the school. But consideration of applications taking into account registration under such circumstances is a violation of the current legislation. After all, parents themselves will pay for the education of their children.

For foreigners

Is it possible to go to school without a residence permit? Yes. But, as a rule, this principle only applies to families where children and parents have Russian citizenship. Foreigners are not given such freedom.

As a rule, visiting families must apply to the education department and get a referral to a particular school. The document is issued without taking into account the registration and personal preferences of the applicants. Usually, a referral for admission to a school is made out where there are vacant places. So Foreign citizens rarely can they take advantage of enrollment in the institution where they want to go. Of course, they will try to pick up a school for the child closer to the place of registration, but if this is not possible, you will have to agree to any proposed option.

Recipe for success

How to get into a school without registration? We have already mentioned the need to act quickly. The sooner parents apply to enroll their child in an institution, the higher the chances of success.

Today, schools begin reviewing relevant requests from April 1 to June 30. Sometimes applications are accepted from March 1. From July 1, requests from parents whose children will go to a school outside of their residence permits are being considered. By this time, it is necessary to form a certain package of documents and submit an application of the established form to the director as soon as possible.

Documentation

How to get into the first class without registration? Usually, parents have to not only hurry up with the application, but also immediately present all the necessary papers.

Among them are:

birth certificate;
child's medical record;
parent's passport
school application.

In addition, if the child has any diplomas, certificates, diplomas - all this must be brought with you. Schools are behind the scenes fighting among themselves, trying to accept only the best. And therefore, the presence of certificates and awards will contribute to the successful enrollment of the child in school. This fact needs special attention.

Several schools

How to get into a school without registration? The next tip is to apply to several educational institutions at once. This technique will help protect against failures. After selecting multiple schools, the parent must submit requests in the prescribed form to principals. The law permits this scenario.

After the end of the consideration of applications for enrollment in schools, parents within a week will have to confirm the fact of the child's admission to a particular institution. Immediately after that, the originals of the listed papers are given to the director. Otherwise, a child who is enrolled without taking into account registration may not be accepted into the school.

Temporary registration

How to arrange a child in a school not registered? There are a number of recommendations that will help bring the idea to life.

The first thing parents are offered is to issue a temporary residence permit for themselves and their child at the address associated with the chosen school. Then, in fact, children will be admitted to an educational institution in the first place. There will be no problems with such a scenario. The main thing is to find a person who will agree to register temporarily the parent and child at a suitable address.

On an ongoing basis

Thinking about how to arrange a child in a school without a residence permit, you have to be persistent and act quickly. AT modern Russia there is a real struggle for places in educational institutions. And even at the place of registration, not everyone can get into schools.

Therefore, some prefer to change their permanent residence permit to an address suitable for the chosen institution. A little troublesome, but it's easier than guessing whether a child will be taken to school or not. It is not difficult to guess that under such circumstances, children will be admitted to institutions in the first ranks. However, you should not hesitate to apply.

There are no places

The child did not get into the school by registration? What to do next?

This scenario is becoming more and more common. It does not mean that you can forget about enrolling in school. Parents have the right to apply with a corresponding request to the nearest educational institution.

After checking the places at the school, they will be accepted into the chosen institution if it still has places to enroll children. Otherwise, you will have to select a school again. And so on until an institution is found that has free places for teaching children without registration.

Illegal Methods

How to arrange a child in a school not registered? Some parents, in pursuit of the prestige of educational institutions, are ready to break the law. It's about bribery.

It is enough to apply with a corresponding request to the director of the school of interest. Some willingly take money for enrolling children to themselves. Unfortunately, this practice is becoming more and more common. And therefore, it is often useless to think about how to get to school without a residence permit.

findings

Perhaps that's all. These tips will help increase your child's chances of successfully enrolling in school. It is advisable to use the registration of a temporary or permanent residence permit for a minor and one of the parents. Then, as we have already said, the child will be enrolled in an educational institution in the forefront.

But bribery is not the best solution. Thinking about how to get into a school that is not registered, you should not break the law. After all, there are effective solutions that are recognized as official.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions. We all want the best for our children. But sometimes we confuse our ambitions with what the child really needs.

"Which school are you going to?" - one of the mothers in the locker room of the kindergarten asked me secularly.

I hiccupped in surprise. At the time of this question, the son was barely five years old.

“I didn’t even think about it,” I admitted.

My answer surprised my interlocutor. And she enthusiastically began to list the already selected options. I listened with half an ear and nodded politely, not going to fill my head with anything like that for at least another year. But in vain.

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I had to deal with this issue closely last autumn. To be honest, at first I didn't bother at all. The system of "assignment" of addresses to certain schools - such a system was introduced in St. Petersburg several years ago - suited me absolutely. No night fires under the windows of schools, no multi-kilometer queues and roll calls. They won't leave you without a seat, and thank God. Fortunately, the entrance to the nearest temple of science is three steps from my front door. Perfect!

My steadfastness was shaken after I spoke to my neighbor. Her eldest son in September became a first-grader of this particular school. And in two years, if they did not move, she would have to send two more twin boys here.

“Already fourteen times in two months I went to the rono,” the mother of many children admitted to me. - I ask you to transfer the child at least somewhere. They refuse, they say, there are no places. And I have never seen such a mess. Both theft and extortion. Knowledge is weak. And the contingent is not the most pleasant - two ordinary first classes and two correctional ones, for the mentally retarded. Of course, I am not against inclusion, but ... "

At this point, I got nervous. I don't need that kind of happiness.

Get into the best

I decided to discuss the issue with friends whose children are our peers. And I realized that, firstly, I was hopelessly behind the situation. Secondly, mothers seem to, advocating for quality education, satisfy their own ambitions first of all. And, thirdly, not a single system can withstand parental pressure. Do you need a registration? So it will!

“I chose a physics and mathematics school. The best in the area. The director at the meeting immediately said that she would not be able to take everyone who wanted to. Well, I had to buy a registration and use my connections.”

This is my friend Katya. So far, her son Sasha does not have any obvious inclinations towards the exact sciences, and, in principle, to study. He would like to drive the ball and watch cartoons. But my mother had already decided everything for him. The question is, will he pull in high school complicated physics, she left unanswered.

“We go either to Spanish or Italian. No languages today. For the next year, they made a residence permit with friends in order to go to school, this is enough. We go there for preparatory courses. It's hard to study there."

This is my other neighbor Julia. She sends her twins to first grade. True, to be honest, I’m not sure that the girls will pull the load. Moreover, there are many people who want to get there and the classes are too large: 30-35 people each. Yes, now this is also possible; in 2016, SanPiN excluded the norm according to which there should be no more than 25 students in a class.

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“Well, a tutor, if anything, we’ll take it,” Yulia sighs.

Tutor, Carl! First-graders who just need to master the school curriculum.

“We send the kid to the cadet class. Let him grow up as a man." This is Cyril's father. His son is the most tender dandelion boy, from which his father decided to raise a real man. Unless, of course, his psyche is not broken first. Mom grabs her head, but doesn’t go against her husband’s word.

“And we go to a private school. Expensive, of course, 25 thousand per month. But there personality is at the forefront, not assessments. They are not even given them, they work according to the credit system. European education. And the classes are small.

I really wanted to go to this school. I started asking the mother of our classmate for details. It turned out that “personality” is great, but they don’t always have time to pass the mandatory program there. Yes, and education there is exclusively primary. And the classes are small - sometimes there are 10 people, and sometimes only 2. I imagined how this “personality” would come after such careful attitude in the mass fifth grade of a regular school, and I felt sick. No thanks, that doesn't work for us.

The kids don't care

Maybe I don't understand something? With this question I had to go to the kindergarten psychologist. Like, am I not a bad mother if I don’t strive right now to shove my child into a specialized school? Maybe you already need to go out of your way to get into some humanitarian lyceum?