Five steps to become special for men! Part 2.

To become a special woman? No one said that it would be easy, especially when it comes to coordinate changes in oneself and giving up bad habits. Lev Vozhevatov opens the eyes of all those who are led by pseudo-fashion trends in relations between a man and a woman, dispelling the prevailing myths about what the second half of a successful man should be like. What did you imagine when you read this? A painted doll with pouty lips, Reubens and Louboutins? If your image even remotely resembles this, then you urgently need to reconsider your standards of beauty, and I mean not only external, but also internal. Yes, with such girls, successful men spend their nights in expensive clubs, but they hardly date and dream of creating relationships. What does the man of your dreams really pay attention to?

Step 2: The state of your soul.

For some reason, they have now begun to forget about who a woman should be for her man. And we are not talking about her household duties, but about something more important, spiritual. After all, a woman is a muse that creates comfort around her man and gives him inspiration in her own way. A woman is the neck on which the head of a man rests, and not because she is a cunning bitch who twirls her henpecked as she wants, but because she is the very second half of the relationship, without which it is impossible to build a family. A woman is a house that you want to return to in any circumstances, because it is important for your man to know that there is not another brain drain waiting for him, but a portion of support and care. A woman is the energy from which the male desire is born to perform feats and kill dragons. And if you think that all this has long gone out of fashion, then ... Stop thinking like that from this very second!

You can’t even imagine how important it is for him what kind of energy you radiate and in what direction you direct it. Now most women, especially those who were once offended by “the same goat” (the man that is in the life of every woman), are absolutely sure that the more bitchy they are, the more attention they will attract. So here's some news for you: in the eyes of a man, a bitch is an easily accessible, obstinate entertainment for one night, no more. Think for yourself, who wants to be with a woman who always has a “sour” expression on her face and constant claims? On the other hand, you can be completely different from all these fashion dolls. You can radiate the positive energy of your soul, and be sure - he will notice it right away. After all, all your energy is reflected on your face. This is a gentle smile, and a brilliant look, and even a charming habit of wrinkling your nose.

Of course, you should not always be in a good mood for him, because you are a person, and people tend to be capricious and sad. But do not go too far! Do not obsessively beg for pity from the man of your dreams, and even more so do not try to get the maximum benefit from this. As soon as you feel better, give him your smile as a reward for support, and do it as often as possible. If the state of your soul is tantamount to light - bright, warm and warming - the man of your dreams will do everything to keep this light in you.

Lev Vozhevatov for FastLife, MAXIM magazine expert, charisma and relationship coach,