7 reasons to be socially active

Many questions come to our editorial office from guys suffering from social phobia - one of the widespread diseases of the information age. Guys can’t start a conversation, they can’t adequately continue it, and they can’t end the conversation either. Complexes appear that develop into real fears. Life becomes torture. You can freely communicate online, be a witty intellectual, even a courageous guy, but in society you are not just a little gray mouse, but the corpse of this gray mouse.

You start a conversation, and the words get stuck in your throat. You try to offer something, but your idea stumbles over the phobias that you have invented for yourself. Complete darkness that just can not be overcome. But a man can handle anything, especially his own cockroaches in his skull. For this, first of all, it is important to understand why you need to meet society halfway and what it will give you.

1. Emotional release

Man is a social animal that does not want to live alone. Even modern monks who have “gone from the world” have access to the Internet and all the benefits of civilization. Why does a person need a person? So that he supported him, warmed and understood. Everyone needs to speak out, everyone has problems that are difficult to solve if they are not voiced. This is a kind of therapy that allows you to breathe freely and move on. If you do not do this, you will take up the bottle and on some beautiful evening you will blame your loved one all at once. And it’s better not to do it: you can seriously spoil his attitude towards you.

2. Mutual assistance

The time is right now for everyone to stick together. You help your neighbor and he helps you. The more such horizontal connections, the easier it will be for you to live. You will not waste time on any household dregs. In addition, it is always good when there are acquaintances who will help at least with advice. Believe me, good advice can save a lot in your life.

3. Expansion of financial opportunities

We recently wrote about the advantage between groups of people. This form of cooperation is not based on friendly relations. Here we are talking about the common interest of strangers among themselves. But to be part of this interest group, you have to communicate and communicate a lot. Can't go for it? Then pay more and save longer, no one will judge you.

4. Useful links

Acquaintances can be business, they can be friendly, or they can be incomprehensible, not having a certain color. But any of them can "shoot" at a certain moment. And you won’t guess when the fateful moment will come, which will concern your life and the life of a person about whom you really don’t know anything, except for the name. In Russia, much is done only by acquaintance. Be a friend of an important person and your life stock will go up. And if you get into really big trouble, ghost connections can get you out of the snake pit.

5. Understanding reality

You can hide from her forever, but sooner or later she will catch up with you. And then the blow will be crushing, and you will start looking for meanings that you can cling to, but you will not be able to find them. All these years you have avoided society, but it is it that sheds light on the generally accepted picture of the world. And you, fortunately or unfortunately, live in their world. So do not deceive yourself and run away from the reality that surrounds you. The faster you run away from her, the hotter her hellish breath on the back of your head. It is for this reason that you need to establish communication, learn about changes in your city, human destinies, economics and politics, not only through the Internet.

6. Personal development

The more friendly and sociable you are, the more interesting people you will meet along the way. Individuals are good because they can bring something new to your personality, thereby developing it. Their views are unique, their experience is unique, completely different from what you are used to seeing among the crowd. You communicate, find a wealth of information and transfer the experience of others to yourself. You grow spiritually and intellectually, isn't it good?

7. Your accomplices

Everyone has . Maybe you're into modeling or brewing beer, or maybe you're into horseback riding or poker. It’s nice, of course, to do all this in splendid isolation, but your skills will dull over time if you don’t introduce other people to your hobbies. And how can you love poker and never play at a real table? Virtual reality at this stage cannot replace simple human communication for us.