Status about a friend who died. Statuses about the bitterness and pain of losing a loved one. How I wish death was just a stranger
Death is not to be feared! As long as we are alive, she is gone, and when she comes, we will be gone.
The most important thing in life is that you are not dead.
Dying is not scary - once he died ... Living is much scarier.
Everything in life is false, there is only one truth, and that truth is death.
Only death turns life into destiny.
I'm not afraid to die, I'm afraid to stop living.
It is not death that should be feared, but an empty life.
When a person is gone, it doesn't matter what he was. What matters is whether the world noticed the difference.
Instead of being afraid of inevitable death, we should be afraid that we will not be ready for its coming.
Until we know what death is, it is not logical to fear it.
The best way to use life is to live it so that it continues after you die.
They say that the day of death is the same as everyone else, only shorter.
Nobody dies too soon, everyone dies on time.
Death is placed at the end of life in order to more conveniently prepare for it.
The evil created by man does not disappear with his death.
To die means to join the majority.
Death is the greatest mathematician, because it unmistakably solves all problems.
When someone dies, you feel guilty just for being alive.
Life separates people more often than death.
While we are thinking about how to kill time, time is killing us.
You shouldn't be afraid of death. Death, like life, is a long way to go with honor.
Have the courage to live. Anyone can die.
If you want to be able to endure life, prepare for death.
We first understand death only when it takes the person we love.
Death is beautiful. Only the dying, feeling her kiss on his lips understands this. Death is to be admired. Death deserves it. How you deserve happiness and peace after Death.
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Hello dear friend! Today we will dedicate our selection to a very delicate issue that not everyone wants to discuss and think about. Death is a scary enough thing for each of us. Although, there are people who are afraid of it, and, on the contrary, accept it as a completely natural process of life. Such people can be understood, it all depends on life experience and faith that leads us through life. Someone says that after death, heaven or hell awaits us. Someone claims that after death there is nothing, and we will disappear into nothingness and darkness. A big and strict aunt, in a black cloak and with a hood, holding a large metal scythe in her hands, one day will come and take our life at any moment, tomorrow, today, in a year, at any time. And, nevertheless, it is worth thinking about death, because while a person is alive, he is in a hurry somewhere, doing things and he is of little interest in how he will leave this life. Throughout our lives, we make many mistakes and think little about what. They say on their deathbed, everyone feels a sense of remorse and asks to forgive everyone who has been hurt and suffering. Statuses with a meaning about death will help you understand the essence of this issue and study it in more detail. Good luck, take care!
The fear of death completely takes possession of those who live selfishly. - Georgy Valentinovich Plekhanov
We are much calmer about the death of millions of people due to an explosion than about the death of one acquaintance. - Erich Maria Remarque
Wisdom is the highest in accepting death. It is important to understand that life does not end. We are all immortal. Our death is a tragedy only for our loved ones. - Mikhail Mikhailovich Prishvin
Before you even look back, the time of death will come. Therefore, there is no need to be afraid of life - there is very little of it left. - Friedrich Nietzsche
There is no need to turn away from death. Look into her face - and life will be filled with colors. – Georges Bztay
A good man, whose life is full of virtue, will not be afraid of his own death. - Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy
Understanding death gives understanding of new life. — Oswald Spengler
It's not stupid to be afraid to die. Moreover, it is vital, this fear is the main condition for survival, the main natural law. If not for this fear, humanity would have died out a long time ago. – Jean Jacques Rousseau
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If you truly want to see the spirit of death, open your heart to the flesh of life. For life and death are one, as the river and the sea are one. – Kahlil Gibran Gibran
Death, like birth, is a mystery of nature. These are the same elements, on the one hand, uniting, on the other, decomposing into the same beginnings. There is nothing repulsive in death to a rational being or to the plan of our structure. — Marcus Aurelius
A person sentenced to death immediately before execution begins to believe that he will be pardoned at the last moment. – Victor Frankl
People would be unhappy if they knew the day of their death. - Unknown author
Fear of death is the best sign of a false, that is, a bad life. — Ludwig Wittgenstein
Do not be afraid last day but don't call him. - Martial Mark Valery
Death is not evil. - You ask what she is? - The only thing in which the entire human race is equal. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)
Death is that after which nothing is interesting. - Vasily Vasilyevich Rozanov
Death is not an act or even an event for the dying person. She will be both for the living. — Eric Byrne
An unchanging and great consolation in the death of people who died from the disease is its inevitability. - Pliny the Younger
We must live in such a way as not to be afraid of death and not to desire it. - Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy
The death of a sage is death without fear of death. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)
The higher the piles of dead bodies over which the survivor stands, the more often he experiences these moments, the stronger and more irresistible the need for them becomes. – Elias Canetti
Dying at eighty and dying at 10 each has only a second of death. – Alexander Vvedensky
Civilization is concentrated in big cities; suicide too. — Emile Durkheim
May the earth be easy for you. May the earth rest in peace for you. - The usual formula of Latin epitaphs.
Some of the dead rest in peace, others are deprived of it. — Benito Galdos
Some do not succeed in life: a poisonous worm gnaws at their heart. May they use all their strength to make death a better success for them! - Friedrich Nietzsche
God Himself commands you to remember death. - Martial Mark Valery
Only the individual dies completely. – Georg Simmel
If we know so little about life, what can we know about death? – Confucius (Kung Tzu)
The only brotherhood possible in our time, the only one that is offered and allowed to us, is the vile and dubious brotherhood of soldiers in the face of death. — Albert Camus
The best proof that the fear of death is not a fear of death, but of a false life, is that often people kill themselves out of fear of death. - Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy
Nobody can avoid death. - Unknown author
In the birth of an individual, the world is born; in his death, the whole world dies. – Lev Karsavin
To wish for death when one is living is just as cowardly as to lament over life when it is time to die. — Anatole France
Here rests the one who has never rested, keep quiet! - Unknown author
Death is life, closed on me alone and therefore lost in advance. — Maurice Blanchot
Death manifests itself primarily as the destruction of life. — Jacques Lacan
Death is the more complete for a being, the more individual it is. – Georg Simmel
If there were no death, life would be deprived of all poetry. – Arturo Graf
Do not hope that you will know which path death will take you. – Frantisek Krykka
Communion in death is a substitute for true communion. — Maurice Blanchot
The dead have neither a sovereign above nor subjects below; they have no worries that the four seasons bring. Careless and free, they are as eternal as heaven and earth, and even the joys of the kings who sit with their faces turned to the south cannot be compared with their bliss. – Unknown Chinese author
Many die too late, and others too soon. For the time being, the teaching will seem strange: Die on time! - Friedrich Nietzsche
Man will not be free until he overcomes the fear of death. But not by suicide. You can't overcome by giving up. To be able to die, looking death in the eyes, without bitterness. — Albert Camus
Death informs new form love - as well as life, it turns love into destiny. — Albert Camus
The one who is happy should not have fear. Even before death. — Ludwig Wittgenstein
When you retreat, death stands behind you and your meeting with it is inevitable. - Ali ibn Abi Talib
The fear of natural death will be destroyed by a deep knowledge of nature. - Konstantin Eduardovich Tsiolkovsky
What really happened is death. – Alexander Vvedensky
Death is certain, but its hour is unknown. - Unknown author
There is probably no society that does not show respect for the dead. – Claude Levi-Strauss
The moment of survival is the moment of power. The horror from the feeling of death turns into satisfaction from the fact that it is not you who is dead, but another. – Elias Canetti
Before you die or later, it doesn't matter; good or bad, that's what matters. And to die well means to avoid the danger of living badly. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)
There is only one freedom - to find out your relationship with death. After that, everything becomes possible. I can't make you believe in God. To believe in God means to come to terms with death. If you were reconciled to death, God's problem would be solved - but not vice versa. — Albert Camus
The only freedom that can be opposed to the freedom to kill is the freedom to die, that is, to free oneself from the fear of death and find a place for this accident in nature ... - Albert Camus
There is a group of people who were born on earth just to talk about death. There is a peculiar beauty in the slow fading, like the beauty of the sky at sunset, and this fascinates them. – Rabindranath Tagore
Another descends into the grave of a hundred years, and died as soon as he was born. – Jean Jacques Rousseau
In order not to be afraid of death, always think about it. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)
The shadows of death are reborn against our will. — Georges Bataille
Death is the first and oldest, one would like to say - the only fact. It is monstrously ancient and new every hour. – Elias Canetti
Knowing that he himself is mortal, the slave also knows that the master can also die. — Jacques Lacan
We will rise above death if we discover God in it. - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
I wanted a violent death - the kind where it's forgivable to scream in pain because your soul is being torn out of your chest. On other days, I dreamed of dying for a long time and in full consciousness - so that at least no one could say that death took me by surprise, that it came in my absence - in a word, to know ... But it is so stuffy in the earth. — Albert Camus
The death of those who do immortal deeds is always premature. - Pliny the Younger
A poem about death ... Why, in fact, should this not be a poem? - That's why it is sung that it's hard. – Lev Karsavin
Let us try, while life is given to us, so that death gets as little as possible of what it can destroy. - Pliny the Younger
The life of the deceased seems to us smoothed out, as if we see it through a haze. — Ludwig Wittgenstein
Death chases the fleeing. - Unknown author
It is death that must finally reveal us. - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
About the dead, as well as about the living, neither good nor bad, but only the truth. - Unknown author
The worst thing that can be is to die alive. – Martin Andersen-Nexo
Death is a serious matter, it enters into life. You have to die with dignity. - Anatoly Vasilyevich Lunacharsky
Death is only powerful to produce a temporary separation. - Sergei Nikolaevich Bulgakov
The death wish for another is really everywhere, and in order to find it, one does not have to delve into the human soul for a particularly long time. – Elias Canetti
If you cannot escape death, die at least with glory. – Aesop
Death is evil only because of what follows it. – Aurelius Augustine
The day will come and you will die an idiot. — Georges Bataille
You don't have to go far for death. - Petronius Arbiter Gaius
Later or earlier we hurry to one dwelling (grave). - Unknown author
If you called unfortunate only those who are destined to die, you would not miss anyone living. - Unknown author
Death is the last argument. - Unknown author
What is life, such is death. - Unknown author
A person is not yet able to overcome death, but premature death, premature old age is possible and necessary. - Alexander Evdokimovich Korneichuk
Suicide appears only with civilization. — Emile Durkheim
I'm not afraid of death. So life is mine. - Vasily Makarovich Shukshin
Those who invoke death upon themselves know it only by hearsay. — Wilson Mizner
Every organism begins to die from the moment of birth and carries within itself the causes of its impending destruction. – Jean Jacques Rousseau
Death so immeasurably surpasses any earthly darkness. — Ernst Simon Bloch
If you are afraid of death, you will not do anything good; if you still die because of some pebble in bladder, from an attack of gout, or for some other equally ridiculous reason, it is better to die for some great cause. — Denis Diderot
The fear of death is explained solely by a sense of self-preservation. - Lev Shestov
Death always has one cause or another. - Unknown author
Usually people have a good idea of their funeral. — Eric Byrne
There is no such tribe, clan or people, which would not indulge in long thoughts about their dead. – Elias Canetti
It is possible for someone who does not like to live to die. - Unknown author
The fear of death is inversely proportional to the good life. - Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy
We are all like that. We remember each other towards the end of life, when someone becomes seriously ill or dies. Then it suddenly becomes clear to all of us who was lost, what he was like, what he was famous for, what deeds he did. - Chingiz Torekulovich Aitmatov
Omniscience about death will not cancel the fact that death is not an integral part of life, and we have no choice but to accept the very fact of death; no matter how much we worry about our life, it will end in destruction. — Erich Fromm
In the depths of your hopes and desires lies a silent knowledge of the beyond; and like seeds dormant under the snow, your heart dreams of spring. Believe in dreams, for the gates to eternity are hidden in them. Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd standing before the king, who will soon lay his hand on him as a token of mercy. Doesn't the shepherd's trembling rejoice at the fact that he will be marked by the king? And isn't it trembling that worries him most of all? – Kahlil Gibran Gibran
If death were a blessing, the gods would not be immortal. - Sappho (Sappho)
Dying is quick and easy; living is much more difficult. — Lion Feuchtwanger
Death is exactly what it means to be light. — Maurice Blanchot
Death is the resolution and end of all sorrows, the limit beyond which our sorrows do not cross. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)
When you are disturbed or upset by something worldly, then remember that you will have to die, and then what you previously thought was an important misfortune and worried you will become in your eyes an insignificant nuisance that is not worth worrying about. – Epictetus
Everyone stubbornly believes that he should not die. – Elias Canetti
The bitter waters of death - Albert Camus
For some reason, it is perhaps more pleasant to die than to sit and wait for death like that. - Nikolai Georgievich Garin-Mikhailovsky
With mortality statistics, society reduces life to a chemical process. — Theodor Adorno
Death is the greatest of all possible forms of slavery. – Vladimir Frantsevich Ern
Light a candle in the cemetery
Let it burn to the ground.
And I'll whisper at the grave
Well, here I come daddy!
In the land cold and damp
Are you freezing?
Get up! Let's go home already!
After all, how we miss you!
And stop calling home
A deep hole in the ground.
I want to hug you so much
Also Brother and Mom.
Well come back! Stop sleeping!
Watch the sun shine!
I'll help you get up from there
You just let me know!
Say it's a joke
And let's laugh together.
And by the hands, as in childhood,
let's go home!!
Again longing squeezes tightly paws
Drinking claws into the depths of my soul,
I miss my dad more and more...
Six billion people on earth
But among them - not one, believe me,
Who can fill this void...
I live in the hope of meeting after death,
Crossing the threshold of Eternity...
More and more, fatigue accumulates ...
Let melancholy not part its paws,
I stayed there as a baby,
And daughters love dads more...
Yes, I'm an adult, I understand everything,
but it doesn't make life any easier!
Still, I miss you so much!
Continue to love the same!
Continuing to think about daddy,
And about him, about the living remember.
Touching the strings of the heart,
That it will never be raised.
That he will never be heard
That he will never wait.
He is probably above all the clouds,
In the unknown space of God...
He sees us, of course he sees,
And like us, just as bored.
He flies like an angel for us,
To be a little closer to us.
He certainly would like to return,
But he'll never be able to
In this world he can't wake up
Nothing will warm his heart.
And it only hurts more
But it's impossible not to think about it.
Every day it gets harder on my heart
And to reconcile, daddy, it's hard.
And the damned time does not heal
And does not heal these wounds
And inside the void can not be filled,
I'm tired of fighting myself!
I want to spit on everything, forget ...
And return home with a smile.
See happy faces there
And so that daddy is alive again ...
He was with me. Always and everywhere
Laughed, cried and mourned.
I won't forget the bottomless eyes.
And I know he loved me.
I know no matter what happens
He always protected me
And only my memory remains
About him. And I blame myself
That I couldn't say goodbye
What I didn't understand
That I am destined to part with him,
Lose him forever.
I know for sure I deserve it.
I couldn't save him.
But madly in love
And I will always love.
Let him not hear me now
But I know what he sees
How hard it is to breathe without him
The one who called him father.
Days come, nights go...
And the heart cries and calls.
You know... somewhere very close
All the time... your daughter is waiting for you...
And the daughter ... keeps the name in her heart ...
Keeping, like a talisman, in the chest ...
And whispers softly (suddenly you hear):
"I miss you so much... come..."
And you will come, having heard as if ...
And you will protect the dream ...
And like fog you melt in the morning...
And my daughter ... will wait again.
And the nights will follow the days...
Longing can not be pulled out of the chest ...
The daughter whispers everything ... very quietly:
"I miss you so much... come...
When the stars are shining in the sky,
One of them is yours, I know it...
For many years you shine a bright light,
And here everything is the same, then winter ... then summer.
The same day and the same way to live ... people strive.
Tired of tears, your family lives ...
everything is as usual, but that's just without you.
Tell me how you live there in heaven?
Is there malice, envy, and lies there?
It probably doesn't happen there.
and no one knows the tricks and meanness.
You found peace there and found yourself a shelter,
and you know, here they are waiting for you as before ...
Let them say that the years heal, the pain is erased,
But what does the heart ache, there is no strength,
from one look at your portrait.
Oh, how short was your earthly age,
My best dad, my closest person.
Time does not heal, time spares
But my heart still hurts the same.
I will not meet again, I will not hear you
How are you my daughter, my dear?
Unfortunately we are not given
To turn back what I wanted for a long time.
Time does not heal, time is in a hurry
It is it that decides all fates.
We're sorry for what you didn't do.
Everything you wanted in this life.
Passed by, but alas, do not return.
I chose the path with the angel on my way.
Today is 10 years since my dad passed away...
10 years without you... 10 years...
10 years is an eternity...
10 years without you... 10 years...
Only now I understand - forever ...
How is it, dad, dear dear
Forever you left without saying goodbye
10 years, 10 years...
I've been suffocating for 10 years without you...
Dad, baby, look how we've grown
children and grandchildren!
How do we want to snuggle up to the chest
and forever forget about separation ...
But now I'm only going to the grave
and I close my eyes...
10 years for a huge disaster
10 years is not enough to forget...
Well, hello dad. .. here, I came to you early.
Sorry for not seeing you for such a long time.
I'm so confused, I don't know how to go on.
Trouble comes after trouble again.
Do you remember, dad, how you celebrated birthdays?!
How, rejoicing together, they joked having fun.
How, all bad weather seemed to us an obsession.
How, together to hell they sent TU to attack.
Your advice, how come in handy -
To be the strongest in this world.
Believe me, I learned from them like the alphabet.
She was able to teach them to her children.
Also, you, dad, taught me not to cry.
Do not give in to your destiny.
And if it is difficult, you should never fall.
And in this life, do not be afraid of anything.
Ehhh. .. if I knew how much I miss you!
A tear fell! (I promised without tears).
From the heart to the ground, flowing through the soul.
To you, my dear, through the chamomile churchyard
The wind is blowing in the windows. dries wet lashes.
How we miss you! to forget on your shoulder
Irrecoverable loss. like a broken soul...
I still can't believe that you're somewhere in the stardust.
In the heart of the pain of memories. and lilac shadows
In the indifference of the touch, I lie on my knees.
The wind blows through the windows. it comes from you.
And you are not enough in this world ... not enough ....
How hard in the world
Lose loved ones.
You won't replace anything
parental roots.
When my dad died
It was so hard! And the pain in my soul remains
Even though many years have passed.
He rarely comes in dreams
But in my mind I see
His portrait is far away.
The earth keeps him, his soul flies
In distant skies
He is watching me
With love and tears.
Sometimes it's not enough
His support to me, And my heart knows:
He is in heaven, not in a fire.
I so want to cuddle
TO HIS CHEST big
And enjoy the meeting.
As in childhood, with all my heart! Hear his voice
Affectionate, dear,
Both strict and angry
Parent like this.
How dear are the moments
All our sweet meetings, and these meetings can
Kindle the fire of the soul.
This fire will help
Give me strength to live.
Father! Come to a meeting
At least in my dream!
You are now beyond the sky
My beloved, dear person
Death by a ruthless, hard hand
Took you away, dad forever
You won't give me advice
I won't see your loving look
I will not be warmed by you
Who is to blame for your death?
Not! None! It just so happened
You are in the arms of God now
My life has changed without you
The heart became like a wounded beast...
It beats differently without you
And sadness tears him to pieces
My heart yearns and cries
The vise squeezes the soul tightly ...
I won't break your peace with a tear
I will live in bright memory
Silence I learned to listen
And love you endlessly...
Hello, dad, dear ... how are you there? ..
The most loving man in the world..
You know, if you count the years,
You would now have wrinkles...
I would kiss them for fun
Or whining in the sleeve when it's bad.
You would whisper that the years fly by
I'm just such an idiot...
You stopped dreaming of me.
Do not come - tell me, is it necessary?
With a downpour, give me the news - how are you there? .. -
I will be extremely happy for her.
I'll tell you how I live
What I write, with whom I do not expect to meet again ...
And that I can barely keep afloat
All hoping that `time will heal`.
And it ticks to the beat,
It sews seams for a long time - not for the weak.
You know, if you count the years...
Gray hair would suit you...
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You have to live with the pain of loss. There is no escape from this pain. You can't hide from her, you can't run away. Sooner or later, it covers again and I want only one thing - deliverance.
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The DEATH of a loved one is the most terrible grief that can befall a person. The pain of loss sometimes seems unbearable.
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Life and death are just two moments, only our pain is endless.
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Ah, I... I'm sorry... I'm calling... I'm crying!!!
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Everyone died, what's the point in denying it now. But how to understand this with the heart.
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Take me, Lord, instead of him, and leave him on earth!
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When you first encounter the loss of a loved one, then you understand the price of life and the inevitability of death.
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Death denial. Family members may act as if their loved one is not dead; waiting for him, talking to him.
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Although it does not sound sad, our life is short and sooner or later we will all go into oblivion.
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The feeling of loss gives rise to torments similar to the torments of a person thrown overboard a ship ...
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Take care of those you love!!! Appreciate the moments spent together! Feel free to forgive! So that later it would not be excruciatingly painful for unspoken words, for not perfect deeds!
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Probably, if you truly love a loved one, you will never come to terms with his loss.
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On the stone wall of the temple was carved a poem called "Loss", it has only three words, it has only three words. But the poet scraped them off. Loss cannot be read... only felt.
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People regret not for what was or is. People regret lost opportunities.
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The loss of a loved one breaks our familiar world.
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Time may heal, but one does not live long enough to forget the one who was dear.
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Death passes through the Earth, separating loved ones so that later they can unite in eternity.
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Friends always live in each other's heart, even after one dies, in the heart of the other he will remain forever.
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You left so suddenly ... It is unthinkable that your life was interrupted like this, we are left with only tears and the truth: Remember and pray all the time.
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There is no life on earth where there is no child. Why do I live on earth if children are dying?
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It is impossible to return, it is impossible to forget... Time is inexorable!!! Half a year has already passed. Life is passing by… Awareness has not come!!!
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To give up your love is the most terrible betrayal, an eternal loss that cannot be replenished either in time or in eternity.
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We mourn for Lokomotiv, we are sorry for the guys, but we were waiting for them in Minsk... Life is very unpredictable...
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The most important man in my life is you, daddy, and no matter how old I am, I will always remain for you a little daddy's daughter, and you will be my main man, no one will replace you. May the earth rest in peace for you.
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As soon as we lose faith in our strength, we lose ourselves. Statuses about the bitterness and pain of losing a loved one
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It is very painful and scary to lose loved ones, relatives, loved ones, but with each loss, feelings become dull and the heart becomes colder ...
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It is necessary to pray for the departed, in the world of dreams of silent silence. So that tears do not shed from heaven, for us ... for sinners ... they.
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They say that time heals ... It seems to me that it simply tears out pieces of our memory, with blood ...
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It hurts to look into your eyes and understand that you cannot help... It hurts to be there and know that this is the last night... When a doctor declares death... The pain of losing loved ones is unbearable! … There is no replacement for them!!!
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Damn… it’s so scary… you see a person, you say hello to him… and after a couple of days they call you and say that he’s gone… It’s scary…
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When a loved one dies, it feels like you've lost a part of yourself.
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Don't try to avoid painful experiences. Don't hold back your tears. What happened is real grief. It needs to be felt and experienced.
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The memory of the deceased can become an incentive for later life.
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Only when we lose do we begin to appreciate ... only when we are late do we learn to rush ... only not to love, we can let go ... Only by seeing death do we learn to live ...
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Somehow reconciled with fate ... then there are two of us ... and you are alone there. Stock up on a pood of salt with you ... now we eat it with our son ...
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Life is too short to realize its meaning, death comes too quickly, not allowing time to understand that life is given only one.
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This status is for all those who once stupidly lost their soul mate and because of pride missed the moment when they could return it.
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How to relieve the pain when a loved one goes to where there is no way back???
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Do you know why people look at the sky when they are very hurt? So they try to hold back their tears...
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It's sad when people die! It's even worse when the scum that killed them is still alive!!!
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Talk about the past in past tense.
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Today I have a lot to do: It is necessary to kill the memory to the end, it is necessary that the soul turns to stone, it is necessary to learn to live again.
Anna Akhmatova.
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And I burned everything that I worshiped, bowed to what I burned.
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How often, for the sake of loyalty, you are tormented by loneliness, your love is not needed by the dead, your love is needed by the living.
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Disillusionment - is it a profit or a loss?
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The worst thing is to lose what you believed in, hoped for, and then bam! and a black hole formed inside.
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The person cannot accept the loss. He experiences shock, which manifests itself in the complete absence of feelings.
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It’s just… from time to time… it happens… your messages and voice are missing… I ask… don’t forget me… gradually turning into the past…
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What heart can endure? All the pain and sorrow cannot be expressed in words. Nobody knows how to love like a mother. How painful it is to lose your mother.
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Gone feelings can still return, but a departed loved one can never.
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When one person dies, it is a sad loss, but the death of millions of souls is a statistic.
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A person can come to terms with the thought of his own death, but not with the absence of those he loves.
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Wisdom is the highest in accepting death. It is important to understand that life does not end. We are all immortal. Our death is a tragedy only for our loved ones. - Mikhail Mikhailovich Prishvin
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You left the pain in your heart forever! Gone from this life forever! Dear, sweet and tender, my beloved mom!
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I can't live without you... My heart is crying and my soul is groaning... I, too, my dear, "GONE" from life.
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I recognize you... in the touch of a birch branch, I recognize you... in the river with seething water, I recognize... in the dew, which looks like tears, I know LOVE!!! you're near me.
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You can be 14, 20, 30, 42, 50… You will still cry when dear people leave.
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Getting attached to a person is a huge risk, leaving they take your soul with them.
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Who knows the sadness of loss, appreciates the joy of the found.
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I love and remember. We remember those who left us, We remember those who closed their eyes forever.
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Getting out of depression gradually becomes possible, heartache becomes smaller. A person begins to look for ways to solve psychological problems that are not related to the loss.
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Nobody dies too soon, everyone dies on time.
Statuses about the bitterness and pain of losing a loved one
Love yourself for the benefit of others.
A woman dies, and Death comes to her. The woman, seeing Death, smiled and said she was ready.
- What are you ready for? Death asked.
- I'm ready for God to take me to Paradise! the woman replied.
- And why did you decide that God would take you to himself? Death asked.
- Well, how? I suffered so much that I deserved the peace and love of God, the woman replied.
What exactly did you suffer from? Death asked.
- When I was little, I was always unfairly punished by my parents. They beat me, put me in a corner, yelled at me as if I had done something terrible. When I was in school, my classmates bullied me and also beat and humiliated me. When I got married, my husband drank all the time and cheated on me. My children exhausted my whole soul, and in the end they didn’t even come to my funeral. When I worked, my boss yelled at me all the time, delayed my salary, left me on weekends, and then fired me altogether without paying me. Neighbors gossiped about me behind my back, saying that I was a walking woman. And one day a robber attacked me and stole my bag and raped me.
- Well, what did you do good in your life? Death asked.
- I was always kind to everyone, went to church, prayed, took care of everyone, pulled everything on myself. I experienced so much pain from this world, like Christ, that I deserve Paradise ...
- Well, well ... - Death answered - I understand you. There remains a small formality. Sign one contract and go straight to Paradise.
Death handed her a piece of paper with one sentence to tick. The woman looked at Death and, as if she had been doused with ice water, said that she could not put a tick under this sentence.
It was written on the piece of paper: "I forgive all my offenders and ask for forgiveness from everyone whom I offended."
Why can't you forgive them all and ask for forgiveness? Death asked.
- Because they did not deserve my forgiveness, because if I forgive them, it means that nothing happened, it means that they will not answer for their deeds. And I have no one to ask for forgiveness ... I didn’t do anything bad to anyone!
- Are you sure about that? Death asked.
- Absolutely!
- What do you feel for those who caused you so much pain? Death asked.
- I feel anger, anger, resentment! It is unfair that I should forget and erase from my memory the evil that people have done to me!
- What if you forgive them and stop experiencing these feelings? Death asked.
The woman thought for a while and replied that there would be emptiness inside!
- You have always experienced this emptiness in your heart, and this emptiness has devalued you and your life, and the feelings that you experience give meaning to your life. Now tell me, why do you feel emptiness?
- Because all my life I thought that those whom I loved and those for whom I lived would appreciate me, but in the end they disappointed me. I gave my life to my husband, children, parents, friends, but they did not appreciate it and turned out to be ungrateful!
- Before God said goodbye to his son and let him go to earth, he said one last phrase to him, which was supposed to help him realize life in himself and himself in this life ...
- What? the woman asked.
- THE WORLD STARTS WITH YOU..!
- What does it mean?
- So he did not understand what God told him about ... This is about the fact that only you are responsible for everything that happens in your life! You choose to suffer or be happy! So explain to me who exactly caused you so much pain?
- It turns out I'm on my own ... - the woman answered in a trembling voice.
- So who can't you forgive?
- Myself? The woman answered in a weeping voice.
- Forgive yourself - it means admitting your mistake! To forgive yourself is to accept your imperfection! Forgiving yourself means opening up to yourself! You hurt yourself and decided that the whole world is to blame for this, and they do not deserve your forgiveness ... And you want God to accept you with open arms?! Have you decided that God is like a soft-bodied stupid old man who will open doors for fools and evil sufferers?! Do you think he created the perfect place for people like you? That's when you create your own paradise, where first of all you, and then the rest, will feel good, then you will knock on the doors of the heavenly abode, but for now God has given me instructions to send you back to earth so that you learn how to create a world in which reigns love and care. And the one who cannot take care of himself lives in a deep delusion that he can take care of others. Do you know how God punishes a woman who considers herself an ideal mother?
- How? the woman asked.
- He sends her children, whose fates break before her eyes ...
- I understood ... I could not make my husband loving and devoted. She failed to raise happy and successful children. I couldn’t keep a hearth where there would be peace and harmony… In my world, everyone suffered…
- Why? Death asked.
- I wanted everyone to feel sorry for me and sympathize ... But no one took pity on me ... And I thought that God would definitely take pity on me and hug me!
- Remember that the most dangerous people on earth are those who want to arouse pity and compassion for themselves ... They are called "victims" ... Your greatest ignorance lies in the fact that you think that God needs someone's sacrifice! He will never let into his abode one who knows nothing but pain and suffering, for this sacrifice will sow pain and suffering in his world...! Go back and learn to love and take care of yourself, and then those who live in your world. And to begin with, ask forgiveness for your ignorance and forgive yourself for it!
The woman closed her eyes and started the journey again, but only under a different name and with different parents.
