Why doesn't a guy like a girl he likes?

Quite often, people are faced with a situation where they fall in love unrequitedly. We always like those who don't like us. And why do we always like those who do not like us. Why is there such injustice? Can a guy like a girl he likes?

Do not accept defeat if suddenly the girl did not reciprocate. If you know for sure that it should be yours, then try to figure out the reasons for the situation. The girl does not like you not because you are bad, but because there is something in you that repels her.

One can recall many situations when girls first reject guys, go to others, and after a while “bite their elbows”, because they turned their backs on quite successful and promising gentlemen. If we analyze these situations, we can identify the following reasons that girls reject those who are interested in them:

1. The girl is currently interested in other relationships, and not those that the guy offers her. For example, she wants to have fun and have fun, which is why she is attracted to guys with money, and not romantic and in love people. The way out in this situation is the following: you need to give the girl what she wants. If she craves money, then you should earn it and demonstrate that you have a girl so that she likes you.
2. A girl likes other guys. As long as she is young and beautiful, she can afford to choose. So she chooses guys according to their appearance and character, and sometimes according to these two criteria at the same time. If a girl does not like something in a guy, then she rejects him.

Psychologists constantly say that a person cannot please absolutely everyone. From this, two conclusions should be drawn:

1. You should not try to please another person if it makes you uncomfortable. If you see that your partner humiliates and insults you with his dislike, then it is better to turn your attention to other applicants. Do not try to please absolutely everyone - it is impossible. Know that there will be girls who will never like you - and that's okay.
2. Understand that even the girl that you like and whose attention you are trying to earn, someone else does not like it either. She, too, may face a situation where she is rejected, no matter how beautiful and attractive she may be. Not all guys and men will like it. Moreover, over time, the number of failures will increase.

It’s unpleasant when you like a girl, you want to win her attention, build with her, but she doesn’t reciprocate. Here it is proposed to consider the common causes of this phenomenon.

Your life revolves around your partner

Have you had the opportunity to observe how in a couple of lovers one partner is already tired of the constant care and love of his beloved? One person begins to get carried away and interested in the second so much that gradually his whole world begins to revolve only around him. This can be observed in the relationship between mother and child, when the mother devotes all her strength and time to the baby, who happily takes everything upon herself. A mother no longer thinks of anyone as her child. And the child is glad that his mother revolves around him, like the Earth around the Sun.

If such behavior is welcomed in the relationship between mother and baby, then in adult love relationships it quickly becomes boring and begins to push one partner away from the other. As if the Sun begins to run away from the Earth, so that it finally begins to be interested not only in him, but also in other planets and stars. It is this desire that arises in the person around whom the life of his partner is enclosed.

"Living someone else's life" - this is the name of the behavior of someone who is completely immersed in his loved one. The partner wants to know where, when and with whom his loved one sees, what he likes when he goes to the bathroom, how he works, what he is told, how he feels at every second of time, etc. In other words, the partner seems to merge with your loved one and live every day his life. If it were possible to move into the body of another person, then the partner would have done so. He would refuse to devote time every day and waste energy on some of his worries and deeds, in order to finally live the life he loved.

If at first it attracts, because everyone wants to be interested and taken care of, then it starts to repel. A person is not interested in someone whose life revolves only around him. He wants another adult to have some kind of life of his own, which includes other interests and other people. A person does not need a partner who will follow on his heels, no longer be interested in anything and live his life. An adult and self-sufficient person needs a partner who will communicate with other people, be interested in other things, achieve something, develop himself. He wants to be shared with him impressions, emotions and benefits, and not become his shadow. It is the shadow that becomes the person who forgets about his desires and interests, starting to devote himself to his partner.

A person is not interested in someone whose life revolves only around him. So don't make mistakes. Love your girls, but don't just be interested in them. Let everything else attract your attention, interest, inspire. After all, the world is not one person, despite the fact that you love him. No need to become a shadow of your girlfriend, be the one who walks next to your loved one and can give him something other than love, attention and care.

Why does a girl not like a guy?

The considered reason can manifest itself both at the beginning of the relationship, and after some time of their formation. However, often guys are faced with girls ignoring them even at the initial stages of dating or dating. Girls can immediately demonstrate that they are not interested in guys. It may happen that girls meet guys several times, but then break up with them. Why don't girls like guys?

This question is especially interesting for those who are constantly rejected. Absolutely all girls break up with them after the first or several meetings. What is the reason for such behaviour?

1. Ugly appearance or untidy appearance. You can study the basics of a pickup truck as much as you like and learn interesting phrases to attract girls, but if the guy looks ugly and unattractive, everyone will turn away from him. Dirty clothes, bad body or breath odor, unwashed hair, and so on will cause girls to turn up their noses literally from the first seconds.

To prevent this from happening, the guy must understand that he must be neat and take care of himself. There is no need to be super handsome if nature has not endowed you with natural beauty. It is enough just to dress in new, clean clothes, use perfumes and deodorants, wash, etc. A guy must also be neat if he wants to please girls.

1. Ugly figure. There are figures that absolutely do not cause any sexual desire. A sagging belly, wide hips, excess weight or, conversely, excessive thinness - all this repels girls. If one girl does not pay attention to this factor, then the remaining 9 girls will definitely refuse to get acquainted with a guy with an unattractive figure.

A guy should have a masculine figure when his arms are strong and his hips are narrow, his stomach is flat. If this is not about you, then you should do physical exercises. If you want girls to like you, then you will have to make an effort and improve your figure.

1. Low self-esteem. It should be remembered once and for all: girls like a guy with adequate or inflated self-esteem. If your self-esteem is low, then this is probably the reason why you are rejected.

Why is self-esteem so important? It forces a person to do certain things. Low self-esteem makes a person complain, cry, talk about their problems. The funny thing is that everyone has problems. However, only people with low self-esteem spend their energy talking about them or complaining, while they themselves do nothing to eliminate them.

A guy who whines, complains, cries, appears in the eyes of girls as a loser. And why do they need a loser? They are looking for guys who will solve their problems. Moreover, a guy is called a man who is ready to solve even girlish problems. A loser can only whine, not decide, which is why girls reject such a guy.

You can improve your self-esteem. Here you should consider the virtues for which girls can love you, and then focus more on them, and not on the shortcomings.

1. Lack of culture. Girls do not like to feel awkward in society. If a guy is rude, rude, gets into a fight, gets drunk, laughs out loud, etc., then this will cause a desire to part with him. He can be funny and playful. But girls want to feel comfortable in public in society with their guys, and not blush or separate them during a fight.

What should you end up with?

If you notice that girls reject you, you should understand the reason for this, in order to eliminate it later. You can wave your hand and not change anything in yourself. But what outcome will you come to?

If you want to please the girl you like, you have to find out what is missing in you that she could love you for, or what is in you that repels her. If you do not want to improve relations with a girl, then you really can not eliminate the situation that has arisen.