How to hug a girl

Hugs are an important part of the stages of rapprochement with a girl and during a relationship. A guy who knows how to hug a girl naturally and unobtrusively, without creating discomfort at the same time, will win her over much faster than one who underestimates the importance of hugs. As a rule, a hug often carries some kind of message, and in a certain way helps to achieve one or another result. However, of course, a hug does not always pursue global goals. In what cases is it appropriate and occurs most often? You hint at intimacy. You are with a girl in a secluded environment, conducive to intimacy. The girl is positively disposed to communication, and you have no doubt that she is interesting. In this case, the hug often becomes a stage of rapprochement leading to sex. You are simply inspired. A wonderful event has just happened to you, and you are in a good mood. For example, you and your girlfriend found out that tickets for an event you wanted to attend were still on sale, the two of you rode an exciting attraction, you met after a long separation, and so on. Support. There can be two options - you want to support your interlocutor, or you yourself need this support. If a girl cries, then, most likely, hugs are simply required. Often, one hug can soothe much faster than many words of encouragement. If you yourself are upset and the girl sees this, there is nothing shameful if you say: “Can I hug you?”. If you have a close relationship with a girl, or at least she likes you, then this request will not embarrass her at all. Protection. This type of hug demonstrates protection - you kind of close the girl from the whole world. This is appropriate when a girl complains about some circumstances or is afraid of something. In this case, your hugs, most likely, she really needs her. It's just nice. Not all people need some reason to hug someone they love or like. Some girls just love hugs. After some time after meeting you, for sure, you will notice this feature of her, if it has a place to be. In this case, do not look for an extra reason for hugs - most likely, the interlocutor will be happy with them anyway. Emotions. Sometimes the situation may develop in such a way that it is difficult to find the right words for confessions and explanations. In this case, hugs can completely replace the conversation and show more of your emotions than any statements. Proximity. In this way, you show each other that you are good together. Hugs often emphasize that people are very close.

Strong friendly hugs Usually they are difficult to confuse with love hugs. So what are their characteristics? First of all, it is important to note that, as a rule, they do not last long. The man quickly embraces the woman and immediately releases her. This usually happens at the beginning of the meeting or already at parting. This hug is not preceded by prolonged eye contact, intimate conversations, and the like. Often a hug is accompanied by a pat on the shoulder or back. It is quite appropriate in the male company. Intimate or loving hugs:

If you want to demonstrate to a girl that you are ready to become her protection and support, then hugs from the back are quite appropriate. Hugging her around the waist, you give her a sense of security and comfort. Also, for many of the fair sex, this type of hug means trust in each other. There is a type of hug, which is commonly called a “castle”. During it, a "death grip" is characteristic - people, as it were, "clung" to each other, strongly pressing their bodies. Usually such a hug is appropriate after reconciliation or in a fit of overwhelming feelings - often it signals a fear of loss. People who often practice such hugs consider them very symbolic, and are usually very attached to each other, do not want to be apart. This hug is commonly called "flying". Often it speaks of a passionate attitude towards the object of sympathy. During this hug, the guy tears the companion off the ground, holding her on himself or, putting her on the surface in front of him (for example, a table). Of course, this hints at physical attraction. Visual contact. With this type of hug, no matter what the position of the bodies, the main thing is to look into each other's eyes. Usually in the look you can read all the emotions that a person is experiencing at that moment, and, of course, this brings them even closer. Most often, such manifestations of feelings are characteristic of people who are really in love with each other, and whose connection is very strong. Sometimes such a hug is called a “pickpocket”, and, of course, there is a logical explanation for this - upon contact, one or both partners hold their palms in the back another's jeans pockets. Most often, this suggests that you want to be even closer to each other, you are comfortable together and good. Also, such a hug can manifest itself when the guy is on the side of the girl, and presses his hand to her through the side pocket of her robe.

Comforting hugs Perhaps the most comforting hug that a man can give a woman looks like this: he gently presses her to him, keeping both hands on her back. Such a hug will show the interlocutor that she is not indifferent to you, you empathize with her. In addition, do not forget that at the moment when a person needs comfort, he is most vulnerable, and a return hug, of course, speaks of trust in you. As you know, the back is one of the most vulnerable places, because you do not see what is happening behind you. That is why stroking the back and “sheltering” it gives a sense of security.

Before embarking on hugs, it would be nice to determine whether the girl is in the mood for them or is it completely inappropriate now. To do this, you should pay attention to some non-verbal signs that the interlocutor gives you. Signs that determine that she is not against hugs:

She looks into your eyes. The gaze may be inseparable and, perhaps, as if waiting for something. At the same time, there are often pauses in the conversation. Periodically, they correct the items of their wardrobe or hair. This, at a minimum, suggests that she wants to look attractive in your eyes, which means that she would hardly be uncomfortable hugging you. There is no discontent, indifference or irritation in her voice. By intonation, you understand that she likes your communication. With her body, she leans slightly towards you if you communicate while sitting. If you walk down the street, then she tries to walk closer to you. The girl is clearly upset about something - she can tell you the reason for her feelings or while she is gathering her thoughts. Whatever it was, now she needs comfort, and hugs do a great job with this.

Why does a girl not want to hug

In fact, there may be several reasons, and some of them are not always obvious to young people. Let's consider some of them:

The girl is very shy, and you are in a crowded place. It is still uncomfortable for her to hug in public. Your smell is somehow unpleasant for her. Perhaps you recently visited the gym, and it is clearly felt, or she simply does not like your perfume, which you put on yourself in excess. She herself is not sure that it is pleasant to hug her. It is possible that she was at work all day and did not have time to take a shower, so now she does not know how good she smells. She just does not like hugs. For some reason, they make her uncomfortable, and this reason is not in you. Your hugs usually go beyond the bounds of decency - you begin to touch the buttocks of the interlocutor and in every possible way hint at intimacy. Sometimes this is really appropriate, but if this happens in most cases and in situations that are not conducive to intimacy at all, then this can repel a girl. She just doesn’t like you. Therefore, cuddling with you doesn't bring her much joy either.

The guy hugs the girl from behind, from the back

If a guy is much larger than a girl in terms of his physical parameters, then he can grab her completely (not only by the waist, but also “capturing” her arms), slightly pressing her to him. In other cases, it is more appropriate to hug the girl around the waist, without trying to move towards her chest, if it is not foreplay. The guy, as it were, shows that he is ready to protect the girl.

The guy hugs the girl in front

In this case, there may be several options for hugging, and all of them, as a rule, show a romantic mood. In the first case, your hands may be on the interlocutor's waist. In the second - one hand is just above the coccyx, and the second on the neck. In the third, your hands are on his back. Your movements should not be choppy - go smoothly to hugs. Also gently release the girl. If you feel that the girl is pulling away slightly or your hugs are a little tight, open your arms. Hugs should bring pleasant emotions, but not discomfort.

The guy hugs the girl from the side

Hugs can be around the waist or over the shoulder. When is it appropriate? When you communicate with friends, and perhaps the girl feels insecure. When you choose something together in the store. When you admire a landscape or some canvas at an exhibition. In general, there may be many options. This type of hug is quite harmless in a friendly relationship between a guy and a girl, and will help you if you want to get a little closer to your interlocutor.

How to hug a girl to make her feel good

As a welcome greeting. Such a hug will immediately set the mood for subsequent communication, because from the first seconds you show your disposition. Note that if we are not talking about too long separation and very close relationships, then the welcome hugs should not last more than 2-3 seconds. It is better to move away from the interlocutor before the hugs turn out to be awkward. Gently hug the girl you like. It is important to take into account the temperament of your companion, and be sure that she, too, is disposed towards you in a positive way. In this case, do not make hasty movements - first just approach the girl - sit next to or come close. If you see that your step is well received and the interlocutor does not try to move away, then you can move on to a gentle hug. At parting and farewell. When parting, hugs can be longer than when meeting. You can accompany this gesture with words that are most appropriate for the situation. To convey your feelings and desires. A romantic hug should last longer than a welcome or friendly hug. You will show the girl your feelings if you hold her close to you for more than 2-3 seconds. take a deep breath in and out, and hold your companion in your arms. Note that it should be strong enough, but still not suffocating.

Why is it so important for girls to hug their man often?

Many girls find that hugging gives them a certain sense of security. Moreover, representatives really appreciate those hugs that should not necessarily lead to intimacy. With the help of them, they are affirmed in the idea that the partner does not need “only one thing” from them, and he really wants to show care, attention and affection “without consequences.” Many women have a craving for hugs since childhood. As little girls, they notice that, as a rule, they are hugged by very close people who love and treat them well. They understand that a stranger will not hug them - this is done only by someone who can be trusted. This understanding is fixed somewhere at the subconscious level, and now it can only play into your hands. For many girls, hugs with their partner are of great importance - during a conversation, while watching a movie, after intimacy, and so on. In their understanding, this gesture is one of the indicators of a good attitude towards them, care and love. If such bodily contact is important for a girl, and a man does not take this seriously, then serious problems may arise in the couple's relationship. Do not forget to give hugs to your other half, if it is significant for her - such gestures will benefit you and only strengthen your union.