How you can cheer up a pen pal: encouraging words
The man is not in a good mood confuses the female mind no less than the announcement of crazy discounts on fishing tackle.
It seems that there is a chance to please her husband without much effort, only from which side to approach the matter - the devil knows him.
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What to do if a husband or boyfriend is not in the mood?
Don't jump in with a bunch of questions.
Firstly, a man of any age, provided that, of course, he is not a little rascal in a certain sense of the word or not a sugar daddy, who believes that everyone around him is obliged to the coffin of life, does not wait for him at all.
If you managed to connect life with the first or second option, then the solution to the problem of sour mines and leaf fall in the soul must be sought somewhere else. For example, a psychologist. And to you.
Secondly, the absence of a smile on the face and a sparkle in the eyes may be the result of banal fatigue, so all a person wants in this case is an hour of complete silence and, perhaps, some kind of life-giving drink with a small snack. The algorithm of your further actions is clear.
Thirdly, people are not robots, they can instantly change their image only with remarkable acting talent.
That is, if at work a guy or a man is not an art worker, but a “beast” who is required to ensure iron discipline at the enterprise, then there is no need to wait that when he enters the house, he will immediately will transform into a cat-pusyu.
He is a normal Homo sapiens, he needs time to adapt and understand that he is already at home, where there is no need to walk “with a grin”.
That's why no need to do something right away, if a man returned from a hike for a piece of mammoth, supposed in the future, with a slight sadness on his forehead.
It is enough to kiss him on the cheek, ask about the desire to have a bite to eat in the near future and continue to act according to the situation.
After all, you do not want to be in your soul compared to a slut, generating a lot of noise in space because of trifles?
What cheers men up?
If you pin even the most impudent and self-confident of men to the wall, promise him with an oath that for no price his name will be shown in front of the rest of the inhabitants of the planet, then he frankly admits that loves simple human joys more than anything in the world type of recreation, interesting entertainment and sex.
And, of course, without the opportunity to fill your stomach in a timely manner, it is also difficult to have fun. Therefore, if a man is sad, take action on the principle of "acting on the contrary":
Things that can improve men's, but which you might forget about:
How to cheer up?
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Husband
Everything that is suitable to cheer up a guy, with her husband works even better. Because you have been married for a certain number of years, are already battered by everyday life and often idly in the process of paying attention to each other.
Therefore, when the husband understands that now he is being courted again purely as a male of interest to you, then only this lifts the mood.
When you see the desired result, do not try to prodynamize and say something like: “Darling, now take a bath for yourself.”
If you don’t have the strength to take care of your gentleman, just hug-kiss-sip.
But just don’t do it like the uncle who showed the child a candy wrapper without candy inside.
The intention must be preamble to action, not a simulation of activity and false concern.
What to write to him?
Sea variations: compliments, fresh anecdotes, poems-pies of your own composition on a topical topic for both of you, motivating wishes.
Only hackneyed phrases, which, allegedly, were overheard from the greats of this world, should not be issued. At times it looks vulgar and off topic.
How to cheer up a pen pal - examples:
How to cheer up a guy via SMS:
- admit that you are preparing a culinary surprise for his arrival;
- invite to hang out with common good friends;
- tell you how much you miss the presence of the subscriber now;
- communicate your feelings in three words, and not necessarily in a classic format;
- convey good news;
- buy goodies and send the list closer to the end of the school day. It is not recommended to do this in the morning. After all, it is possible to provoke a stomach ulcer - saliva will begin to be produced more actively than usual.
Only a limited number of today's young people love poetry.
Therefore, it is better to correspond in this form with your own works - if you have talent, or quote your favorite creators, but only for connoisseurs.
What to say to him?
How to cheer up a man with words?
With a sufficient level of empathy, it is quite easy be infected with joy from the people around.
Therefore, if a man himself is a sympathetic person, you sometimes see manifestations of a romantic nature in him, then you can try to fight for his good mood with the help of your joy.
Just with passion tell him something nice, what happened to you today or describe a funny scene that you accidentally saw on the street or even developed purely in your head.
So there are more chances to cheer up than with the help of questions from which a person may just shut down, if he has not yet decided whether to tell you about the reason for his sadness.
How to cheer up a man with gentle words? Kitty, masik, darling, my tiger, my lion, my sun, lapulya, bunny, pusya and thousands of others - any of them is perceived by an adequate man as more affectionate treatment and causes a normal response.
Only one condition: such communication is appropriate without witnesses. This is a conversation format for a secluded couple. Otherwise, you will be perceived as two, vulgarly demonstrating to others their supposedly tender feelings.
Having issued something similar in front of outsiders, risk righteous anger both from the side of her man and his environment. And if there is a business partner or boss nearby ... "Turn out the lights."
How to cheer up a man who works hard?
If he spends a lot of energy, time to provide for his family, take care of creating comfortable conditions at home.
Like it or not, a man needs to get enough sleep and a good diet.
All other entertainment perks add only after joint discussion the process of their implementation.
Otherwise, there is a risk that it will turn out “I tried, but you didn’t appreciate it,” and he really just doesn’t have the opportunity to break out to the event even for an hour. And who needs a scandal on level ground or secret grievances about nothing?
Lifting someone's spirits is as difficult as correcting physical defects with surgery or preparing a new dish from unknown products.
One thing pleases consequences are less catastrophic- the chance of maintaining a relationship is high, the process may please both. Especially if the “patient” has everything in order with humor, and he just temporarily became depressed.
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