How to become a cool girl? Not style, but character.
Do you really want to win the favor of others, but you do not know how to do it? Would you like to try on the image of a cool girl? There is a solution!
always attract you like a magnet. They try to imitate such people, elevating them to the rank of idols. You will never see them among the crowd - they usually lead it. It is hardly worth copying their image - it will still be inferior to the original.
How to become a cool girl? Find your own path, however, you still need to start from a certain base.
So the steel was tempered
If you know about such concepts as "willpower" and "iron character" only by hearsay - it does not matter. These qualities can be cultivated in yourself. What does that require?
Go in for sports - it is a great motivator.
- Set goals and achieve them, do not quit halfway through.
- Learn to control your emotions. Only those who know how to manage themselves can manage others.
- Stick to the daily routine. A cool girl is not a party girl, hanging out at night in clubs, and in the morning crawling to couples. Everything is just the opposite.
The ability to see the good in everything
Our thoughts are a beautiful flower that needs to be nurtured. If you allow a grain of negativity into your head, then you can be sure that this weed will definitely germinate and try to stifle a flower that delights those around you with its wonderful aroma. How to learn to protect yourself from the bad?
- Keep a diary of personal achievements. Every day, write down 5 successfully completed tasks in it, gradually bringing their number to 10. You will see, your life will begin to improve! 
- Don't be lazy. Only a pampered princess can afford to sit on satin pillows and be capricious: I don’t want to, I won’t. A cool girl is a hardworking nature. As a rule, we create jobs for ourselves by not doing things on time. Hence depression and nervous breakdowns.
Don't take trouble as a trend: "Well, here it is again, this could only happen to me." In general, forget that sentences can be built in this way. Learn to learn from your own mistakes, unless you want the rake dance to be your signature act in life.
Connecting with the right people
If you are now in a company where you are considered uninteresting, it is hardly worth wringing your hands, slandering yourself. It's the psychology of a loser. Perhaps you just need to change companies. Find friends of interest, sign up for various sections and circles. These people will see you in a completely different way.
A talented person is talented in everything
Powerpuff girls tend to be very smart and well-read. You just need to read the right books, not modern glosses. Look for the use of your talents, perhaps you will discover facets in yourself that you could not even imagine. The more you know how, the higher your competence in various areas, the more cool person you are considered.
Even when she sleeps, it is clear that she is educated
Many, hearing the phrase "cool girl", imagine a catwoman or a kind of Terminator in a skirt. It's not like that at all. The cool girl has a unique feminine charm, she has great manners. Learn to express your emotions brightly and beautifully, because behind them lies the power that you have so stubbornly nurtured in yourself.
I'm in the house!
Don't lock yourself in. Living in your own little world, where you are a lovely dandelion surrounded by evil gnomes, is pleasant and convenient: if anything, you are in a house, and no one can reach you. Get out of your shell, hatch into the light of day already - life is full of interesting people and events! 
Thus, to become a cool girl, you do not need to wear aviator glasses, pout your lips and take a picture of yourself in the mirror on your iPhone. Real coolness is in knowledge, in true, not ostentatious self-confidence, in friendliness and willingness to help. How do you know that you have succeeded in becoming a leader?
Everything is very simple - a special light will light up in your eyes, to which good people will begin to flock. Radiate happiness - and it will come to you!
